Minding My Own Business

Wow… Its been a while since my last post, but I must get back at it! Below is a post shared with my Facebook family today.

Daily, My motive is never to boast or belittle, but to humbly motivate, inspire, and invite people to explore being open minded about their life && even perhaps entertain the idea living on their own terms…. I too need encouragement and fall weak at times… As a matter of fact,
One of my many mentors –Dr. Brad Bellard told me — “You’re already a winner — YOU just have to believe in YOU and enjoy YOUR process/ journey!  ”

What stuck out for me was “MY JOURNEY / MY PROCESS” !!  The belief is there… The struggle came when making comparisons… I was forced to realize that My path wont be identical to the ones who found success  before me… While the end result may be identical –the “journey” will vary….

In life we get WAY TOOO caught up on what HE/SHE is doing on the right and left of us—forgetting that our path is STRAIGHT ahead…. Looking from side to side implies you arent fully focused on your own track and could be the reason your train is derailed…

Learning to Mind my own business may have just been one of the most valuable lesson I’ve learned this year so far… lol (In addition to all of the lessons learned while meditating on the book of Proverbs…)

** You know minding your own business PERIOD is pretty awesome too — Less stress lol … lol #sidenote

Any whoooo — The world is OURS! Lets go see and claim what belongs to us! Stay the course, embrace YOUR journey– and mind your business!

God truly gets all the glory… ❤
Rhe’Keisha Ta’Vonia

#nonegativity #positivevibesONLY #WEgotThis #WEarealreadywinning

Times Have Changed…

Heeelllllooooo my loves!!!!

I only logged on to express how much I miss how things used to be…. Work used to be better… Love used to be better…. People used to be better… The world used to be better… Period!

Some of you are probably wondering, “What the hell is this girl talking about?” —- Well, allow me to elaborate briefly… I miss how things used to be in my life.  I remember when I used to wake up and knew I was going to a job where I was “kinda” valued— where I had not only a good team of individuals to work with –but a GREAT team of individuals who went to work feeling just the way I felt… I recall a time where life was at least the slightest bit interesting and full of excitement.  Nooooow===== I can not say the same….

I believe it is time to get back to feeling those feelings I once felt.

How about WE all get back to those feelings??? I know there is something you miss…. We owe it to ourselves to be happy on this earth we live on… Are you living with purpose and meeting (if not exceeding) your full potential?? If no, get up— RIGHT now— and make up your mind that you will LIVE, not just be alive…

Well— now that we all feel empowered— Its time for bed…

5 am will be here before I know it… Can’t miss my work out with sissy in the am… 🙂

I love you all!!!

<3Keisha

PS: My prayers go out to my great friend Jazz and her family… I cannot imagine how losing a child feels, but please know that I love you and no matter what—I am HERE… God NEVER makes mistakes and he will NEVER put more on us than we can bear!  R.I.P Baby Sydnee Miller…   ❤ ❤ ❤  I love you!

What Have I Been Up To???–Tidbit

Are you ladies and gents happy to hear I’m back???

It has been an extremely busy past few months.  I need to find more time to balance writing and going through th usual daily tasks…

Any whoooo…. Baking, work, and life have been pretty good lately.  As usual, love has been of none existence…. I’ve pretty much come to the conclusion that im at a point in my life where love doesn’t fit… Yes, I said it… It doesn’t fit… I will find time to love when I have all of my ducks in a row.  Sound weird?? I must make certain that I am first and foremost— “THE BEST ME” that I have the potential to be BEFORE attempting to offer a terribly put together individual to a man of “GREAT” status(which is a must for me)… Really.. Think about it… Who really wants someone who doesn’t have it together and you feel you are the total package?? Yuuuuck…. I know many people feel that two people should be able to grow together, which is true to a degree.  The piece that most miss is that without a foundation, the two would have absolutely nothing to build on…. As Madea would say, ” Chiiiiile, I can do bad all by myself…”  What would two people still “trying” to get it together be doing for and with one another?? Nothing but wasting time… ooooor maaaaybe “SEX”… —- However, there comes a time when sex becomes one element that enhances a relationship, not defines it…. Me, myself, I can run without the stimulating act… When the time is perfect ooor at least right, that awesome prince will come and make himself known… until then—– work now and play later  it is!!!!

Whoa– didn’t intend on taking this post there(that topic is clearly one for another post–on another day), but I had to touch on my reasons for being single… It’s definitily a choice— not because I’m not a hot commodity… ❤ hehehe 🙂

Moving right along— I’ve updated the other pages here on my blog— to include a little about my weight loss and baking… Check those out….

To come, I will begin giving out natural hair tips and or updates as well–since I have been getting tons of inbox messages on Facebook regarding my hair regimens and products I use daily.  Watch for those… 🙂

I must get out of here — this one is pretty short, but –trust me– there will be more to come… I have toooons to discuss with  you all! 🙂

❤ Keisha –yep I know better!